The most important things in life are not things… our relationships are! The relationship that may have the greatest impact on our own lives is the one we observed about our parents. In the same way, our relationship with our partners, our own marriage will influence our children in many different ways.
Providing good schools, participating in community and sports activities, having a computer, offering music lessons these are some of the ways we help to nurture our kids as they grow and develop. Every father wants his child to grow up to be an honest and caring person. But how does that happen?
If we reflect on our own parent’s marriage, what was it like? Did they treat each other with dignity and respect? Were they considerate and understanding with each other? How did they handle the inevitable anger and frustration that comes not just with parenting, but with life? Did they seem to enjoy being married? Why did they have children?